A message from a friend...A warm hug from our parents.. funny playing with siblings... Cuddling your dog.. watering a sapling you planted in your garden...
All the above activities are totally pleasing to our soul because in each of the action we show love to others! And by showing our love we also receive the same from them and it is fabulous to feel ❤️
Why we should love others?!
We humans, developed in the road of evolution from nomads to society because we learned to work with others, and love is an invisible thread which united every single man/women into a concrete structure called family and it built our society.
We as humans always wanted to ensure our safety and development to increase the success rate of our survival in olden days and being in a group increased its possibility. In fact, the rule of being in packs is a vital action for every living thing in the world to have an increased survival rate at olden days and each of them required the likelihood of love to stay together.
Why we are discussing the survival and evolution of earthlings when our chosen topic is love? because without love and compassion being in a group is nearly impossible, and the survival rate was very low for someone who was alone at the stone age or other historic periods.
We built our world with "LOVE"
We basically tend to develop bonding with others when we start to be with them. Those bonds are something which runs the world. When you are willing to give hands to someone who falls, life will give you someone to hold your hand when you need it the most.
By showing love to one another we grow parallelly and that is why showing love is important!
How to show love others!
As we all know love will never get reduced when we show it to people instead it will increase when we share it.
Showing love to others is very important to have a pleasing environment, but one should be very careful with their actions while showing love because the emotion is too delicate.
Showing love is a great gesture but we should know our deeds and boundaries, as humans, we have different opinions and thought processes and by knowing our conscience we could help us to be better with the act of love.
Humans made judgements, those judgements help them to act properly with one another but no one can ensure that the judgement they made about people is 100% correct. But we don't need to do judging when we are willing to show love in a compassionate way.
Here, I am going to list down the key elements of showing love to others
- Ensure the comfortable level of one another.
- Give values to their thought.
- Listen to them instead of judging them.
- Be an amicable person.
- Give the space for them to express their thought.
- Talk when there is a misunderstanding.
- Showing love does not mean you can compromise with your self-respect so respect each other.
- Ensure that your love is not annoying them because the moto is to build a friendly environment, not a compulsive relationship.
- Give respect to each other's privacy because we all have our own secret.
- Understand their life situations
- Ensure to use each other's time effectively.
How to express love!
Many of us have this question loving others is fine but how to express our love to others?
We can express our love in various ways...there is always a way to express emotions when you are true to that, here are some of the ways 👇
- By having a pleasing tone of voice while talking.
- Throwing a gentle smile at them.
- Listening to their problems attentively
- Giving surprise gifts to cherish memorable moments.
- Make a call or message when you have thought about them.
- Write letters to them.
- Appreciate when they do something good or achieving
- Show support when they feel down
- Care about their well being
- Be free enough to express your thoughts to them
Showing love to others is an innate feeling so never stop it.. and always spread love not hatred😉
See you tomorrow!
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