Acceptance is the key to peace!
As humans, we face multiple situations each day which has effects in our life.
We experience the benefits and consequences of the choices we usually made.
But sometimes we feel like it is difficult to accept the undesirable consequences.
Have you ever wondered! why we basically enjoy it when there is a happy moment but don't like it when something is not happening in the way we planned?
It is because we fond of the positive outcome of any situation but not understanding the duality of life.
We need to know that when there is plus it also has the minus in it, what we choose to feel is what makes our life.
Success is always great to feel, but we need to understand that failure is also an element of life. But as I said suffering or happiness is simply our own choice to make!
You could ask me, how I could control my emotions which receives the influences from the outer world basically.
What I am saying for that is... you have to accept your self totally to control your emotional outbreaks and by controlling yourself you can able to handle the outside influence in the way you feel better.
Acceptance is not about enjoying the dinner but also understanding and owning the responsibility that we need to clean the mess we have created!
It is an act of understanding the double side of a single coin.
It is not about worrying all over the dinner about cleaning but it is in the effort we make after enjoying the whole dinner for cleaning so that we can have another dinner the next day. By this way, we can enjoy and also lessens the worrying emotions we have within our self.
Sometimes, the person we truly in love with might not feel the same way.. which is hard for us to understand the reality and basically we drown in the pool of grief.
Here comes the saviour "ACCEPTANCE" if you are ready to accept the fact that, it is not necessary for others to feel the same way you feel, you could able to come out of the grief pool quicker than people who never accept the facts and keep on resisting it.
By knowing the facts and allowing yourself to feel it totally, helps yourself to understand the reality of a situation and helps you to stop daydreaming or dwelling in a fantasy world.
Acceptance is not a single moment action but it is an active process and we need to practice it day by day to use it effectively.
Usage of this mental tool enables ourselves to see and experience the world with ease.
People, situations, Ideas and our perceptions change frequently because we all learning and we all are developing, by accepting it we can understand the versatility of life and can always keep our heart in the hands of peace angel ЁЯС╝
So keep your mind open to understand the reality and have the control of making action in your hand and always hold the hands of "ACCEPTANCE" to have a happy life.
We might feel better when we have only happiness in life but we become complete when we understand that accepting the sadness is also a part of life.
By accepting the reality, stop wasting our energy in daydreaming and by conserving our energy by not resisting to undesirable changes we can unleash the real power of ourselves to experience the enormous possible outcome of life.
Because life is short to waste and we have the universe full of wonders to experience...
USE THE TOOL WISELY ЁЯШЙ!
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